South African Gay Singer, Kolo Bala Dies Of Anal Cancer.

South African gay musician, Kolo Bala has lost the battle against a three-years long encounter with Anal Cancer. He died on Monday, March 7, 2016 at a hospital in Cape Town, South Africa.

Bala was diagnosed with the disease in 2013 and was quite open about his predicament, determining that he will overcome the health challenge by all means.

Unfortunately, that has not been the case.

He is a member of the music group 3sum, also the second to die after the passing of group member, Jeff Moyo in 2010, making Amstel Maboa as its only survivor.

The music industry is shattered by the loss as can be observed from the social media, where tweets have been pouring out.

First Gay Church in Nigeria Marks Their 10th Anniversary

First gay church in Nigeria, House Of Rainbow, on the 2nd September celebrated their 10th Year Anniversary. And according to them, they did it with pride.

Nearly 60 people were in attendance at the event which happened in London.optimized-sngf

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Jide Macaulay, Nigeria’s first openly gay pastor who founded House of Rainbow Fellowship on 2nd September 2006 said:
It is the case of the rejected stones becoming the cornerstone. Our theme was Testimony, Grace & Glory.
For 10 years we have been active creating safe spaces for Lesbians, Gays, Bisexuals,
Transgender, Intersex and Queer people to worship, and celebrate God, just as we are.
In this new decade we are proud to announce the growth of our mission, Eight leaders in Nigeria, Three in Ghana, Two in South Africa, Two in Uganda, Two in Zambia, One each in Botswana, Liberia, Tanzania, Malawi, Sweden and United Kingdom respectively.
Facts about the church:

32 people attended the first meeting which took place at Ikeja Capital City Hotel Ikeja Lagos.

  • On the 31st December 2006, House Of Rainbow hosted the largest number of LGBT people of faith gathering in Lagos for the New Years Eve celebration. Over 200 people attended.
  • There are currently 13 active groups with 17 volunteer local leaders, 11 cities and in 7 countries, Nigeria, Ghana, Malawi, Lesotho, Burundi, Zambia, and United Kingdom.
  • House of Rainbow has two groups dedicated to LGBTIQ Muslims in Nigeria and Ghana respectively.
  • House of Rainbow has performed over 10 Same Sex weddings or blessings in the last decade in Africa and Europe.
  • House Of Rainbow printed and distributed over 10,000 copies of Pocket Devotional for LGBT Christians.

House Of Rainbow now include fellowship to LGBTIQ Christians and Muslims
The Nigeria Media and some other unknown people attacked House of Rainbow in 2008, resulting in brutal assaults on members and death threat

Man Sneaks Into Sydney Gay Club Just To Fill Lubricant Dispenser With ACID

A man has allegedly been caught in the act of filling a lubricant dispenser with hydrochloric acid at what is thought to be a gay club.

The 62-year-old was arrested on Saturday after he allegedly went to one of the rooms in the Rydalmere, north west Sydney, venue to carry out the twisted attack.

According to the ABC, the venue was the Aarows Club, which describes itself as ‘Sydney’s gay and

bi social club’ with ‘three levels of adult adventure’.

Police said security detained the man after he set off an alarm.

It wasn’t the first time the venue had been targeted, and items in the room had been alarmed to warn of tampering, according to police.

The man has been charged with administering a poison with intent to injure or cause distress or pain, entering a building with intent, malicious damage and driving while suspended.

He was granted conditional bail and is due to appear in the Parramatta Local Court on September 20.

“Being Homosexual Is Not Evil” — Charly Boy

Charly Boy seems to have an opinion about everything lately, this time he is speaking out on homosexuality and weighing on whether it is wrong or not. And he is of the opinion that in the times we are living in there is nothing wrong with being homosexual.

 He goes on to write that people should not judge others because they sin differently from them. He added that being gay is not evil and he has never seen so much hate and ignorance that being gay evokes. Judge Not. Recently, there was this trending story of an American who married his Nigerian gay partner, David Shoen-Ukre, in New York on July 30, who accused Nigerian bloggers, of causing the couple harm by publishing their stories without permission. The rain of curses/abuse, and the terrible judgemental comments that ensued after the story broke, was incredible. Many concluded that the couples were Evil. I have never seen hate and ignorance come so alive in words.

While I cannot speak louder than the stupidity of other people who will disagree with me on this, NO, being gay is not Evil!! This is coming days after Denrele revealed that the kiss he shared with ‘Area Fada’ five years ago which went viral was initiated by Charly Boy, who suddenly kissed him during a shoot.

FG Condemns, Investigates Alleged Defamatory Article On Swiss Ambassador To Nigeria

The Federal Government has directed an investigation into an alleged defamatory article in a Nigerian newspaper against the Ambassador of the Swiss Confederation to Nigeria, Mr Eric Mayooraz.

 

The Minister of Foreign Affairs, Mr Geoffrey Onyeama, stated this in a statement issued in Abuja on Tuesday.

 

Onyeama, who expressed shock and dismay over the article, said appropriate measures would be taken against anyone found wanting in the act.

 

The statement read: “The Government has learned with shock and dismay of a defamatory article in a Nigerian newspaper against the Ambassador of the Swiss Confederation to Nigeria.

“I wish to state categorically that the government has no knowledge whatsoever of any of the matters discussed in the article and could therefore not have authorised anyone to speak on its behalf in respect of them.

“With regard to the defamatory article, the government has ordered an investigation and appropriate measures will be taken for any wrongdoing.

“It is to be emphasised that Nigeria and Switzerland enjoy very cordial relations.’’

 

The national daily had alleged that the Federal Government had launched “an investigation to unravel the circumstances that led to the coming of Switzerland’s Ambassador to Nigeria with a male spouse alleged to be his gay partner’’.

The report further alleged that the “Ministry of Foreign Affairs confirmed that it was aware of the issue and has commenced probe.’’

 

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Transgender Model Who Claimed She Had A Relationship With Tyga Takes More Jabs At Him

Transgender model Mia Isabella who claimed she had a relationship with Tyga took more jabs at him by writing a Valentine message to him and releasing screenshots of their alleged conversations in January 2015.

Isabella then wrote:

People have spent almost a year pointing their fingers at me calling me a liar making me a stereotype in the media so now I’m gonna give you what you want. I worked my ass off building my career and book deal to not only lose that but also to lose my soul mate because I made him walk away from me with the bullshit you put us in due to your frivolous behavior.

7 months I stayed suffering and depressed protecting you while losing everything. I’m not taking any more L’s for you fuck you. All this time all I asked while you and your team tried extort me into silence with threats and bribery was to tell the world I did nothing wrong.

Very simple, I didn’t release anything and I NEVER threatened to release a sextape but you decided to let the world make me a villain and you the victim and you weren’t. Truth is I didn’t accept offers of money for silence or career opportunities I did it because you made reference of suicide and I cared too much about you to have that weight on my hands. My heart has been too heavy with your responsibility. The responsibility and promise you made to protect me and my private life from your world that you broke.

I have 3.5 years of truth I could spill in a tell all but I won’t. People should know all the messages were real including this one. And I bet you never told Kylie the truth like I told Colin and my ex fiance that we were cheating on them huh? I can face my mistakes with honesty can you? I was never checking for you yet you stayed chasing me like a puppy begging for treats with an appetite no piece of pussy can ever fill for you. Your bisexuality for women and Trans women is highly common in heterosexual men. Own your shit so nobody can ever use it against you again.

But I’m not hiding anything anymore & not carrying your shame its too heavy for me so HERE you can have it back now. I don’t have to hide I’ve never lived in the closet that’s your burden to carry. Your lucky I dont sue your ass for everything you put me through but I won’t because you don’t have anything that I want all I want is my dignity so I’m taking it back.Happy 3.5 year anniversary an early Valentines gift for you @kinggoldchains

This same Mia outed an NFL player too.

Turkish Football Federation Fined For Sacking Gay Referee

An Istanbul court has ordered the Turkish Football Federation (TFF) to pay compensation for sacking a referee on the grounds of his homosexuality.

The TFF was fined 23,000 lira ($7,900; £5,300) for dismissing Halil Ibrahim Dincdag, 38, in 2009.

The federation claimed Mr Dincdag was “unfit” for military service and thus unable to work as a referee.

Mr Dincdag said he would appeal against the amount, but called the ruling “a victory”.

“Winning this case means a lot to me,” he said. “I hope this ruling will be a model for similar cases.”

His lawyer had asked for 110,000 Turkish lira when the case was filed in 2011.

The former referee told Reuters news agency at the time: “I have been unable to find a job since my name hit the headlines. I have received threats, and have lost hope of earning my own living.”

Prostitute Accuses Boyfriend Of Cheating With Her Male Clients

A prostitute has accused her boyfriend of cheating with her male clients, in one of the most bizzare Jeremy Kyle shows to date. Anthony was unaware that his girlfriend of ten years was being paid for sex until she stumbled upon her giving oral sex to a stranger on an alleyway, and instead of breaking up with her decided to stick with her so they could both make the relationship work.

Maria, his prostitute girlfriend accused him on the TV show that he has been having sex with her male clients, a revelation that left the audience bewildered. Anthony admitted he “wasn’t really happy” about his partner being paid for sexual favours. He said:

“I’m not really happy with that. [But] I love her.”She says she doesn’t do that bit down the bottom. She says she’s never been touched down there. She thinks that I’m doing one of her punters. She thinks I’m gay.”

Maria replied with rage: “What kind of boyfriend are you to let me do it?”
Asked why she was paid for sex, Maria explained “You know why. Drugs. That’s how I make my money.”

Maria explained to a bewildered Jeremy why she was making the accusations, saying

“There’s always stains on the bed and I’m never there.”

A lie detector test proved Anthony was telling the truth about not sleeping with anyone, male or female behind his girlfriend’s back.

Praising him for his loyalty, TV Host Jeremy said: “I didn’t think after 10 years I could be shocked, but I am.” “I don’t think there would be many men that would have hung around, love. He deserves every plaudit in the book.”

Gay Men Subjected To Horrific Electric Shock Therapy To ‘Cure Homosexuality’ In China

They are horrific images of young Chinese men with electrodes placed near their genitals and on their head before being subjected to huge doses of electric voltage to try and rid them of their homosexuality.

It’s been revealed that men are still regularly subjected to gay electric shock therapy in China, 15 years after it was no longer classified a ‘mental illness’.

Hospitals across the country continue to offer the brutal treatment, saying they can ‘cure homosexuality’. Their barbaric methods are exposed by the Dateline program.

Viewers are taken inside medical facilities like the Tianjin Mental Health Hospital where undercover activist, John Shen, is told he can be prescribed drugs and shock therapy.

‘It’s a small electric rod, when you have these urges, you shock yourself with the rod, then you know you should avoid these urges,’ a psychiatrist tells Mr Shen.

In one particularly confronting image it appears a nurse even places electrodes near the man’s genitalia as he calls out that ‘I’m nervous’.

‘Now what I want to make you to feel is scared,’ the clinician tells him as she sends the charge through his body.

China outlawed the classification more than 15 years ago but that hasn’t stopped the shocking practice taking place in medical facilities.

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Another ‘patient’ went ahead with the treatment at the Huashan Hospital to secretly recorded the process.

‘When these urges arise, you can take a cold shower or go jogging to release the excess hormones,” a psychiatrist suggested to him before offering the electric shock treatment. He is told it costs $800 each time and that several appointments will be required for him to be ‘cured’..

Electrodes are attached to the man’s head, which goes numb as the voltage is turned up.’He’s told it will rebalance his nervous system.’

Culled from Mailonline

50 Cent Slams Vivica Fox For Insinuating He Is Gay

Fans may have expected Sunday’s Watch What Happens Live to be all about the Real Housewives of Atlanta season premiere. But once host Andy Cohen asked one of his guests about Empire, things took quite the turn.

“What were your thoughts when 50 Cent blamed the season ratings dip on ‘gay stuff?'” Andy asked Vivica.

“First of all, you know the pot called the kettle black is all I’m saying,” Vivica responded. Kandi Burruss replied, “That was some tea! That was shade. That was major shade.”

When Andy asked if 50 Cent could be gay, Vivica said “he’s not,” but not before adding, “We had a great time. He just seems like he’s got something that’s not quite clear.” She also brought up a Vibe cover with 50 Cent and Soulja Boy that raised flags for her.

Shortly after making the statements, 50 Cent went to Instagram to set the record straight. “Oh No!!! Now she things I’m gay because I let her lick my Ass. LMAO,” he wrote. “Wait, I didn’t want her to, she forced me, my hands were tied. 50 Shades of Grey.”

Soulja Boy added, “Everybody hit up this cougar..she’s single & ready to mingle …1-800-GrannyDesperateForAttention extension I’mWashedUp.”

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Women Are Either Bisexual Or Gay But Never Straight, New Research Claims

Most women are either bisexual or gay but “never straight”, new research as shown.

Women who say they are straight are in fact aroused by videos of both naked men and naked women, whereas lesbians are much more attracted to the female form.

The study, led by Dr Gerulf Rieger from the Department of Psychology at the University of Essex, involved 345 women. They were shown videos and had their responses recorded, including whether their pupils dilated in response to sexual stimuli.

The results found that straight women were strongly sexually aroused by videos of both attractive men and attractive women, even though they said they were only interested in men.

This was in contrast to lesbians, who showed much stronger sexual responses to women than to men.

The researchers said lesbians were the most like men in their responses because it is usually men who show distinct sexual responses to their favourite sex.

Dr Rieger said: “Even though the majority of women identify as straight, our research clearly demonstrates that when it comes to what turns them on, they are either bisexual or gay, but never straight.”

Dr Rieger also said his study showed that lesbians who may dress in a more masculine way may not have more masculine behaviours.

Sam Smith Not Gay Again, Declares He’s Straight For This Girl…

Sam Smith went out on a date with his pal, Tiffany Clare, right after the James Bond Spectre premiere. on a romantic trip to McDonalds.

Captioning the pic of himself and Tiffany draped around each other at the fast food chain, Sam wrote: “McRomance”, before sharing a snap of Tiff in her gorgeous blue gown, laden with McDonalds’ bags, and quipping that he is “straight” for her.

He wrote, wrote: “IM STRAIGHT STRAIGHT STRAIGHT FOR THIS GIRL @tiffany.clare”.

See pics of the romantic date below:

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We Don’t Support Same Sex Marriage, It Is Against Our Belief – RCCG Pastor

A Pastor at the Redeemed Christian Church of God, RCCG Camp ground while briefing journalists yesterday at the Redemption camp about the forth coming congress in December, where he explained that the new auditorium will conveniently adequate 12 million worshipers disclosed that the body of Christ- RCCG is totally against same sex marriage and will not support it.

“We don’t support it. There is no where in the Bible where God said people of the same sex can get married. The stand of the church is very clear and it states; one man, one wife,” he said

Gay Lovers Shocked To Find Out They Are Blood Brothers

Two gay men who met online and started a physical relationship discovered they were actually brothers live on the Jeremy Kyle show.

A DNA test revealed the shock truth for lovers Paul and Lee, who had been a couple for years after coming across each other online.

The pair – who exchanged flirty messages for a full two years before hooking-up – were none the wiser to the fact they shared the same mother…and were in fact closer than either of them could ever have imagined.

The reality only came to light when Lee’s family and friends first met his new lover and noticed a striking similarity between Paul and his mother’s former husband, Ron.The pair sitting in a stunned silence for 20 seconds, with even notorious motor-mouth Kyle left lost for words at the shock revelation.The couple-come-brothers had never met before chatting online.

Paul was taken into care when he was only 18 months old, with Lee later conceived by the same mother, Ena.

Michigan Pastor Resigns After Sharing Photos On Gay Dating App

The pastor, who is married with five children, had shared photos on Grindr

A Lutheran pastor in Michigan resigned recently after being caught sending messages on a mobile gay dating app, according to report on the local news site M Live. The pastor, Rev. Matthew Makela from Midland, is married with five children and has spoken of being gay as a “sinful temptation.”

In posts on the dating and hookup app Grindr, Makela said he was looking to “mess around” with a guy and sent shirtless photos. Screenshots of the conversation with an unidentified user found their way to the gay news site Queerty.

A letter on the website of St. John’s Lutheran Church, where Makela worked, acknowledged Makela’s resignation and asked members of the congregation not to pay attention to discussions of Makela on social media or on the news.

“This changes nothing. Matt is still forgiven and he is still loved, and we will do what we can to stand by him and the family as they face this spiteful attack of shame,” the letter said. “God is bigger than this and will see us through.”

We Are Gay, We Are Here To Stay, Says Kehinde Bademosi

Kehinde Bademosi,  HIV positive brands expert who recently came out as gay has said that Nigerian gays have come to stay. He made this declaration in a recent Facebook update on Tuesday.

“People freak out when your status update contains something gay. They be like ‘this guy is overdoing this gay shit.’ NO, there’s nothing like gay shit but a lot of stuff like intolerance shit.

“We are overtly surrounded and inundated by heteronormative shit all our lives that most gay kids demonize themselves for being wired differently. Call us names. Bind us. Cast us out like demons. Or simply embrace the diversity. We are here to stay. ?#?Live? ?#?Proudly?” he posted.

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Same Sex Marriage: FFK Accuses Buhari of Gay Deal With West

People’s Democratic Party, PDP Presidential Campaign Organisation, PDPPCO alleged yesterday that the Presidential candidate of the All Progressives Congress, APC, General Muhammadu Buhari, has entered into a deal with the Western world to as a matter of urgency legalize same sex marriage if elected President of the country during the March 28 Presidential election.

Addressing Journalists yesterday in Abuja, Director, Media and Publicity of PDP Presidential Campaign Organisation, Chief Femi Fani- Kayode said that Buhari  was considering repealing the antigay laws in Nigeria designed to get the support and endorsement of western governments.

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Obama Says Homosexuality Is A ‘Lifestyle Choice’

President Barack Obama’s gay allies are ignoring his endorsement of the long-standing claim that sexual orientation is a matter of choice. “I think people know that treating folks unfairly, even if you disagree with their lifestyle choice… Let them live their lives and under the law they should be treated equally,” he said 25 minutes into his Wednesday interview with GloZell Green, a YouTube personality.

Obama’s statement violates progressives’ demand that Americans believe there’s no choice in sexual orientation. But Obama’s statement reflects mainstream views. A May 2014 poll by Gallup showed that only 42 percent of Americans believe all gay people are “born that way,” regardless of choice.

Thirty-seven percent of Americans believe that homosexuality is linked to upbringing and environment. That’s a shift from 2013, when 47 percent said gays are born that way.

Indian Minister Offers Medication to Cure Gay People

An Indian minister has announced to open a center to ‘cure gay’ people in the holiday Mecca of Goa. Many have criticised Ministers Tawadkar’s shocking statement.

Sports and Youth Affairs Minister Ramesh Tawadkar told reporters in Panaji, Goa, that: “We will make them normal. We will have a centre for them. Like Alcoholic Anonymous centres”. When pressed for details Mr Tawadkar added: “We will train them and (give them) medicines too,” Indian newspaper The Hindu reported.

Boris Dittrich, advocacy director of the LGBT rights programme from Human Rights Watch, told The Independent: “It is just outrageous and it is shocking but unfortunately after the 377 case was turned down India still criminalise homosexuality and this plays into all kinds of prejudices.”

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Kenny Badmus is Gay, Reveals it Himself

Former Executive Director of CentreSpread FCB, Kehinde Bademosi, popularly known as Kenny Badmus revealed on his facebook page that he is gay.

He said getting married to a woman to meet the demands of tradition was the worst mistake he ever made. He also added that he had always wanted to be with a man but was compelled by societal norms to date girls. Read all he said in the screen grabbed photo below (Click on photo for clarity):

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Sam Smith Discusses Admitting Being Gay Since Age 4 (Watch Video)

British crooner and breakout star Sam Smith made headlines earlier this year when he publicly came out, revealing that much of his debut album, In The Lonely Hour, was about another man. But only recently has the 22-year-old singer discussed coming out at length and why he felt it was important to do it so early in his career.

During an appearance on The Ellen DeGeneres Show, Smith tells the daytime host that he knew he was gay when he was just a toddler. “I came out when I was like 4 years old,” he says. “My mom said she knew when I was like three. So I didn’t have to actually properly come out.”

But why did he come out publicly just ahead of his album release? “It felt like a brave thing to do as well I wanted to do it before because if I did it afterwards people probably would have thought I was lying just to sell records,” Smith says. “My aim is to tell people how good it’s been for me so that, hopefully, gay men or parents with gay children can look at my story and think, ‘Wow, that’s how it should be. That’s what we can work towards.’ ”

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Is Sam Smith Gay???

Amazing vocalist and phenomenal singer, Sam Smith, got us really wondering today. He shared this photo on his instagram and all we are left to think of is if Sam Smith is gay.

The “Stay with Me” croner has been called the new Elton John as his music is exceptionally outstanding and appeals to a wide range of audience. Elton John is gay and this post has got us wondering if Sam Smith is striding on the same path with his music look alike.

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Apple Boss says ‘I’m Gay And I Want To Inspire People’

Apple chief executive Tim Cook has come out of the closet, admitting that he is gay and says he wants to “inspire people to insist on their equality”.

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Writing in Businessweek he said: “Let me be clear: I’m proud to be gay, and I consider being gay among the greatest gifts God has given me.

“Being gay has given me a deeper understanding of what it means to be in the minority and provided a window into the challenges that people in other minority groups deal with every day.

“It’s made me more empathetic, which has led to a richer life.”

Mr Cook has never publicly acknowledged his sexuality, but said he was motivated to speak about it to inspire others.

He said: “I don’t consider myself an activist, but I realise how much I’ve benefited from the sacrifice of others.

“So if hearing that the CEO of Apple is gay can help someone struggling to come to terms with who he or she is, or bring comfort to anyone who feels alone, or inspire people to insist on their equality, then it’s worth the trade-off with my own privacy.”

He emphasised that Apple has “long advocated for human rights and equality for all”, and cited its intervention in Arizona – where it successfully urged the governor to veto a bill which would have let businesses discriminate against homosexuals.

But he said his decision to publicly come out was not an easy choice, adding: “Privacy remains important to me, and I’d like to hold on to a small amount of it.”

We don’t need Vatican’s Affirmation, says Gay Catholic Congregation

After Roman Catholic bishops meeting at the Vatican failed to agree on the issue of homosexuality in the church, Pope Francis appeared barely able to contain his frustration, cautioning the bishops Saturday not to cling to doctrine with “hostile rigidity” and saying the next day that “God is not afraid of new things.”

Back in the U.S., Catholics in one particular congregation were even more vocal.

“I think what we should do is to stop calling the American bishops ‘bishops,’ and start calling them homophobes,” said the Rev. Joe Akus, a priest who ministers to a congregation called Dignity, a network of LGBTQ Catholics with dozens of branches and thousands of members across the country.

The two-week long conference of bishops, known as a synod, was convened to discuss a range of issues facing Catholic families. In a dramatic development midway through the assembly, a draft statement was released supporting almost-revolutionary acceptance of gays, rather than condemnation, acknowledging the “gifts” they had to offer the church.

However, following alarm expressed by conservative bishops, the language was watered down to say that “people with homosexual tendencies must be welcomed with respect and sensitivity,” while reaffirming that marriage is only between a man and woman. That revised paragraph failed to garner enough support to be included in the synod’s final document, though there will be another conference of bishops held on the topic a year from now, in which the debate is likely to be rekindled.

“We are paying attention (to the synod) because there is the hope that a change in at least approach will help people who are afraid, and we don’t want people to be afraid–of being gay, of being Catholic, and especially of being gay and Catholic,” said Akus. “But for us here, we’re gonna do what we’re gonna do, and what we’ve been doing here at Dignity New York for the past 42 years.”

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