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Clinton Unable To Keep Americans Safe- Trump

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US Republican presidential nominee Donald Trump says the recent string of suspected terror attacks across the US shows that his Democratic rival Hillary Clinton can’t keep American people safe.

On Saturday, nearly 40 people were injured as a result of two blasts in New York and New jersey as well as a stabbing spree at a mall in Minnesota.

Trump took to his Twitter account on Monday and blamed the former secretary of state and President Barack Obama for the security challenges the America faces today.

“Saturday’s attacks show that failed Obama/Hillary Clinton polices won’t keep us safe! I will Make America Safe Again!” Trump said in one tweet.

“Under the leadership of Obama & Clinton, Americans have experienced more attacks at home than victories abroad. Time to change the playbook!” the New York businessman wrote in another post.

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6 Ways To Keep Your Woman Happy

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• Affirm her daily. Tell her she looks great when she leaves for work. Send her out the door with a hug, a kiss, a love note. Do it all again when you see her later at home. Let others know that you’re proud she’s your girl. Brag about how much you love it when she cooks your favorite food. Hold her hand in public. Escort her like a gentleman. Get her a drink at the party. Most of all, tell her you love her and show her you do.

• Be silly with her. One of the best parts of a relationship is having those moments together when you’re both just enjoying each other’s company. Re-tell the awkward moments when you were dating. Or the first time you got embarrassed in front of the other. Who says play time ends when you’re no longer a child? Laugh and connect. These are precious memories that will reinforce your bond.

• Ask her what she would like to do on those special occasion days throughout the year. But don’t ask an open-ended question. Ask her to choose between Choice A, Choice B, or Choice C. For example, “Hey honey, your birthday is coming up. I was thinking we could either try that new restaurant you’ve been wanting to go to, or I could pack a picnic and we could hike that trail we’ve been talking about, or I could set up a spa day and we can get massages since I know you enjoy them.” The point is you plan the date. This shows that you’ve taken the time to 1) notice her interests and 2) make an effort to plan something that will make her feel extra special.

• Give her your full attention. Women are social creatures. We like to talk! We just want to tell you something funny happened at work or something new that we’ve learned or that something is on our minds. Even if it means you saying, “Would it be ok if we talk in a little bit? I really want to finish watching this game and then I am all ears.” Most women would accept that. And if the information/situation is really urgent, we would say so.

• Acknowledge when you mess up. Recognize that you hurt her by your words or actions. A simple statement either verbally or written will do. It has to be genuine. It should also be done privately so that there is no distraction and an opportunity for conversation can take place. Include suggestions on how both of you can avoid that situation from happening again. This shows that you’ve done some reflection. Perhaps you can mutually agree that she does this and you do that, so that anger and frustration are minimized in the future.

• Offer her help when you see her struggling. No one knows her better than you. You notice she’s not her usual self, she seems stressed, quick to snap back. Women tend to be overwhelmed with the “to do” list inside their heads. Instead of saying, “What’s wrong with you?” Ask her, “How can I help you?” And when she spouts off a list of things to do, instead of absorbing the stress, calmly reassure her that you’re there to help her and ask her to prioritize the top two items that you can do. When you’re done folding that basket of laundry and packing the kids’ lunches, go back to her and tell her that you’re ready for the next task. She’ll know that she can count on you.

By engaging in these six activities, you will show your love and appreciation for your girl and she will reciprocate. That’s what a partnership is all about. Your woman will indeed, be happy and you will be too.

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7 Ways To Keep Your Marriage Exciting

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1. Learn something new

There is nothing as intimidating and enlivening as learning something new. It can be daunting to put yourself in a situation where you don’t know what to expect. But this is exactly why you should do it. When you do something unknown and uncomfortable, you’ll rely on your partner. You’ll laugh at yourself and each other, and be partners in embarrassment. There is something wonderful about being vulnerable and open. Learning something new will get you there. Take an acro yoga class, join a kickball team, take knitting lessons, or learn to salsa dance.

2. Take interest

We all have interests that we don’t have in common with our significant others. Your spouse may take Pilates three times a week, while you have no idea what Pilates really is. It’s OK to have your own hobbies, but it’s also important that you take interest in each other’s passions. Join your partner for a Pilates class. Have him or her show you around the studio, meet their Pilates friends, and watch your spouse navigate a part of their life that you knew nothing about. Seeing your significant other thrive in a way you were unfamiliar with will leave you impressed and interested.

3. Notice your spouse

Chances are you see your partner everyday but rarely really see him or her. You ask questions, plan the day’s logistics, and kiss goodbye before you head out the door, but did you truly look at your spouse? Take a moment to really notice the love of your life. When you think your spouse looks hot, let them know. Not only will you begin to see your spouse as the beautiful person you married but your sex life will skyrocket.

4. Plan time to relax

Taking care of the electric bill and organizing soccer practice will come naturally. Uninterrupted time together away from the to-do list won’t. Take time every day to be alone together, relax, and talk about your day (no business allowed). Put your phones away and keep the kids at bay. This is your time to re-hash and relax together. Whether it’s first thing in the morning or right before bed, this should be a routine part of your day to preserve your connection and salvage your sanity.

5. Plan time for business

It is rare that two people are in the same mindset at the same time. You may be ready to discuss your plan to sell the house or your interest in going back to school, but your spouse may be coming off a stressful day and need time to relax before jumping into a life-changing discussion. If there’s a big topic you need to discuss, mention it briefly and set a time to discuss it. Big topics are always stressful and often lead to disagreements, so setting a time when you’re both prepared will help keep any disagreements or frustrations in check.

6. Prioritize each other

Your marriage should come first in every scenario. Put your spouse before your kids, your job, and your friends. This can be difficult, especially when it comes to your kids. But if you don’t maintain a good relationship with your spouse, your kids will grow up with a skewed sense of importance and a poor example of marriage and love.

7. Take time alone

Being together all the time doesn’t equal a happy marriage. Take time to pursue your own interests and spend time with friends separately. Not only will being apart provide you with some much-needed alone time, but you will be more excited to see each other after being apart. There is nothing as reinvigorating as stepping back and returning to the situation with a fresh perspective.

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5 Friends You Should Keep In Your Life

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1. The Fun One

This is your typical “life of the party” friend. It does not necessarily mean that this friend is always at the club but it simply means that this person is the one that will always be sure to lighten your mood when you are having a hard time and always ensure that you are able to relax and enjoy life. They have a positive outlook on life and will always be able to pick up your mood when you’re going through a tough time.

2. The Wise One

This friend is the keeper of all of your secrets and all of your troubles, insecurities, and mistakes. They are non-judgmental and are able to provide you with sound advice and also give you reassurance when you are uncertain and are in the middle of making hard decisions.

3. The Cheerleader

This one is the friend that will help you dream and will never make you feel like you are living on another planet, no matter what your goals are in life! You are going through medical school? She will be the one to stop by and check on you in the library or stop by your home and bring you a warm meal. And even if your dream is to make it into professional sports, he will willingly spend countless hours with you on the court or in the gym to help you sharpen your skills and will continue to be your loudest cheerleader through the ups and downs.

4. The Driven One

While that friend may intimidate those who are not used to them, to you, they are a life saver on many occasions! They are the one who will help you get better grades by voluntarily staying in the library to help you study for the final. When you seem to want to settle, they are the one who will continually push you to be and do better. They will not use their intelligence to belittle you, but rather to help you and always will reach out a hand to  pull you up right alongside them.

5. The Reliable One

This friend is there through it all: the good, the bad, and the ugly. Whether it has been a couple of days since you’ve last spoken or a few months since you’ve last seen each other: this friend will drop everything to be by your side in your time of need. They are your first call in an emergency and you know that no matter how impossible the task, they will be there and if they are unable to be there, they will find you the necessary help.

Sometimes you may have one friend who luckily has a combination of those traits, and that is equivalent to winning the lottery especially since true friendships are becoming a thing of the past. However, if you are fortunate enough to even have one of these types of friends, hold on to them dearly and be sure to be as great of a friend to them as they have been to you. Friendships come and go, but when you have found the right ones, they simply make going through life much easier.

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