“The result of our labour”, the scoundrels said. “We have worked night and day but, at last, the most beautiful fabric in the world is ready for you. Look at the colors and feel how fine it is.”
Of course the Emperor did not see any colors and could not feel any cloth between his fingers. He panicked and felt like fainting. But luckily the throne was right behind him and he sat down. But when he realized that no one could know that he did not see the fabric, he felt better. Nobody could find out he was stupid and incompetent. And the Emperor didn’t know that everybody else around him thought and did the very same thing.”
Quote: The Emperor’s new clothes.
Social media has crept into the lives of individuals like never before and ironically still is at a rapid pace. The influence is widening in the urban population. It’s fast becoming a connection to family, friends and sometimes complete strangers across the world. It has taken a new dimension of sharing beautiful personal moments, pictures, successes and sometimes even participating in groups and causes that are geographically and socially disconnected from the individual.
Facebook, google+,Twitter, Instagram, skype, whatsApp, whatever the preferred social media platform maybe, have gained unlimited access in the private life of individuals. From offices, bedrooms, kitchens, bathrooms and even disasters, the mobile revolution tags one into every development that takes place in the lives of groups or friends.
Personally I am on social media probably 24×7 because as an expat I use social media to connect with my family and friends which keeps me connected to my roots. For this simple reason, his is something I can never do without.
So one day the ‘can never do without…’ got me thinking and looking deeper into the impact social media was having on me as a human being. Obviously, it is believed that this new trend in technology would make me a better informed individual, that as my horizons broadened I should benefit from the amazing wealth of information available on these platforms right? But is that the case?
The first incident that really got me thinking was the popularity of the ‘Ice bucket syndrome’, support the ALS cause, dunk yourself with a bucket of ice cold water, make a donation to ALS cure and promote it on social media so more friends would participate and the world will know you are a good human being. Sounds very noble and it is, but sadly I don’t completely agree. So like many of us, when I was nominated by many for this challenge, peer pressure was enough to ensure I participated. But I declined; this led to a number of friends across the globe questioning my belief in charity. They were surprised that normally a balanced ‘do gooder’ like me would decline, but what they failed to understand was that the very reason I declined was because I am a balanced person.
I come, from a place popularly referred to as a ‘third world developing economy’, one of the biggest problem faced by these economies is the lack of basic facilities. So while the Americans and the world citizens were dunking themselves in ice cold water there were children in multiple countries dying for a clean glass of water to drink let alone a glass of iced water. While ALS does kill a few people, hunger was killing at least ten times that number on a daily basis. so why didn’t my friends understand? Wait a minute; ironically, they also came from the same backgrounds, and the same ‘third world’ country that I belong to! So why were they, dunking themselves in ice cold water and making donations to a research cause in the US when every time they drove in their cars they had hungry children knocking on their windows? Questions! Questions!! And more questions!!!
The second incident that really got me asking the same questions was the unfortunate Charlie Hebdo incident in France. Religious fanatics storming a building in Paris and shooting 17 unarmed journalists, it was really sad.
The world joined in condemning the incident; it was heartwarming to see the support of the international community and my friends on social media. I too joined in the protest on that day, and the next day I received a link which was designed to help people sign a petition to the incident. I ignored the link, only to have my friends one by one push this link to me again and again. I again promptly ignored all of them, and a few friends noticed my inaction and enquired why I was so heartless?
Really, heartless? No, I am not heartless, I feel for the 17 journalists and their families but I also feel for the thousands who were massacred in Baga by Boko Haram, and the few thousands who are being massacred spontaneously by the Taliban and the ISIS on a daily basis. My fellow countrymen in Kashmir can I please sign those petitions first? And even if I do sign them, who is really paying attention? After all these incidents are not happening in Paris, or are they?
Those few hundred refugees are stuck on some desolate island in the middle of Lake Chad hungry, suffering far away from the eyes of the world. I can go on and on after all I am from the so called ‘developing third world economies’
Third world economies are better understood by third world citizens. Interesting and unique problems we all face, but hey wait a minute! All my friends on social media also come from the same (third world countries) and we face similar problems and challenges. They have seen civil wars, religious riots, terrorist activities and they also know that while the massacre in Paris was deplorable it is not a shade of what is happening everyday in our countries. Yet I don’t see a mention of these issues on their social media pages?
Circumstances out of the ordinary makes one think and research, such is human nature. I know my friends are educated, they are gentle souls with a lot of empathy towards suffering but why are they disconnected to ground realities? Was social media polarizing the affluent?
A quick check of my 700+ acquaintances on Facebook resulted in the following findings:
100% of them were head and shoulders rather miles ahead of the ‘per capita income’ defined for the country.
100% of them were totally fitting the term ‘educated social elites’.
85% of them seamlessly fit into what is defined as Socio Economic Class A+.
25% to 35% were expats living in affluent conditions across the globe. The friends of friends also fit into this categorization.
A lot of them do not read the daily papers, and depended heavily on the Internet and social media to keep them updated on daily happenings around the world.
This almost seemed like an exclusive club created with participants from the affluent class, with priorities and beliefs that loosely fit. Now things were getting clearer.
Over the passage of time, my social media platforms were addressing areas that fit into the thought process of this exclusive club, so one a chipped nail was getting more “OMG baby take care, might be painful if it gets caught in something rather than, the town of Baga being completely destroyed coupled with the news of a delivering mother being shot with the baby half out!”
Seems like we have pulled ourselves into a protective cocoon, where we are being influenced into actually believing our American expat friends that ALS state was the worst thing around. So we forgot about the child that doesn’t get water to drink just down the road and all that was needed to fit in was an ice cold bucket of water selfie and a US $100 donation.
The more involved we get into social media the more we tend to identify to such ‘exclusive clubs’ it is not by design but by accident, and we slip further away from the ground realities around us. In my opinion this is an imminent danger of us isolating ourselves to an extent that we stop feeling the pain, suffering and challenges of the people around us. The world gives us adequate opportunity to participate in philanthropy, but the question we need to ask is how relevant that philanthropy is? After all we are divided by geography, and all countries are not equal on the economic scale.
What is also important is the need of every individual to be grounded to the realities of life, if we lose out on the opportunity and ability of staying grounded and focused then I am afraid we may be heading for a society that has no reason to exist. Polarization is evident; question is what we do to ensure that it is not permanent.
“Everyone said, loud enough for the others to hear: “Look at the Emperor’s new clothes. They’re beautiful!”
“What a marvellous train!”
“And the colors! The colors of that beautiful fabric! I have never seen anything like it in my life!” They all tried to conceal their disappointment at not being able to see the clothes, and since nobody was willing to admit his own stupidity and incompetence, they all behaved as the two scoundrels had predicted.
However, a child, who had no important job and could only see things as his eyes showed him, went up to the carriage. “The Emperor is naked” he said.
I am glad that child still lives inside of me.
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